How To Have Good Sex: Foreplay

God do you have any idea on how i struggled with foreplay when I was young? I knew that foreplay is essential if you want to know how to have good sex. But it just didn't make any sense to me. You know why this is?

Because men and women are simply different!

Women feel and experience more complicated and subtle things way different than men. And this is especially true for the foreplay. A couple of things you have to know to understand women and get a better grip on foreplay: Women like it if you talk to all of their senses but the vision. Yes this is true, they don't care what you look like, though of course you CAN ruin it if you look like a dump. Dress well and you'll be fine.
What about the smell? Well women like it when you use good cologne so buy something that you like, ask some girls that walk by if it smells alright andvoila you also have this done. Now there is also the smell game you can play which I will cover further down.
Next Sense: Hearing. What can you do to stimulate this sense? Just talk to her and create images. Don't do dirty talk, just tell her what you will do to her for instance "I will cover your whole body with gentle kisses". This turns her on a lot.

Another reason for this is that women like anticipation. Anticipation and the stop n go technique drives girls crazy. For this if you want toknow how to have good sex, always create anticipation by kissing every body part but the breasts, or kissing her all over the face but the lips.

how to have good sex: stop and go

This technique is great to get the girl aroused and super wet. Again you can use it in multiple ways I will just give you some examples:
Kiss her on the lips again and again, start to use the tip of your tongue but then stop! Look her in the eyes for a few seconds, smile, wait, wait, NOW you can go on.
Always do this whenever you hit resistance, for instance if you want to pull of her pants but she resists, just stop. Go back to kissing her and start all over again slow and gentle until you are at the same point again, this will driver her nuts!


how to have good sex: the actual foreplay

OK I think now you have enough basic information to get started.

Start by talking to her senses etc. Once you think she's ready make the transition to kissing. Be gentle start of with slow kisses on her lips without tongue! After 5-10 minutes and some kissing on her neck etc. start the french kissing.
Now you can also use more of your hands, glide her body up and down but as I said do not touch her boobs or ass.
The moment she starts to give you a lot of signals you can start the undressing.

I will cover the signals and the undressing as well as some details on these techniques in the next post on how to have good sex.

how to have good sex: overview

You want to know how to have good sex? Not a problem at all! I know you struggled with it. Problems like not lasting that long, maybe having boring sex or just not being able so satisfy your woman are very common. Lucky for you there are solutions for all your problems and no i do not talk about drugs. There are simple things you can do to enhance your and your partners pleasure by ten fold or even more.

What do you need to know how to have good sex? attraction is essential! I do not talk about the basic physical attraction that is between you and your partner all the time,
what you have to create is something more. be creative, use candles or things like that. Create a very erotic atmosphere. Play with the light and with warm colors like red and orange.

Why is that? Because for women sex is ALWAYS emotional. That is why women always have to be aroused to get the maximum out of sex. So once you created a romantic atmosphere you can go on and make sure she is turned on, how?

Well the thing that is probably the most important to know how to have good sex is to turn a girl on with foreplay.

Foreplay includes everything between the first kiss to the actual sex.

Always start out with kissing and always move forward slowly. Women don't like to be pushed so be careful while you advance.

Spent at least 5 minutes on the undressing and another 25 minutes on the foreplay. Play with her, go two steps forward and one step back, kiss her, start to french kiss her but then pull back completely and just chew on her lip. Repeat this a few times.

Also make sure to cover her whole body with the foreplay, use all the techniques you got to get her aroused. Don't worry she will let you know once you hit her special spot that you have to care more for. For some women this is the neck but maybe its the belly button or the thighs for your girl.

Then move on to the oral sex. Don' make her cum just play. Then start with the sex. Same thing again, be creative don't just do the missionary, I will cover some more positions in a later article,
just make sure she feels good. But don't think you need to know thousands of positions to know how to have good sex, just do what you like and what she seems to like and you'lll be fine. (Hint: if she bites you that isn't always a negative thing ;)

After the sex don't just let her fall and walk away, keep her in your arms and cuddle. Women have to feel needed, not just needed as sex objects.

You still have questions on how to have good sex? Just read my other articles and I am sure you will be satisfied.